
Ever wondered whether some of your habits, frustrations, strengths or quirks might have something to do with ADHD?
Or found yourself wondering why a partner, family member or friend does certain things that don't quite make sense to you?
The examples below aren't diagnostic criteria, but they are experiences that many people recognise in themselves or others when they begin exploring ADHD.
Discover Subtle Symptoms of ADHD
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Behaviour & Habits
You might recognise:
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Parcels arriving from Amazon and barely remembering ordering them.
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Cupboards full of gadgets, hobbies or projects started with great enthusiasm.
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Spending an hour scrolling when you only picked up your phone for a minute.
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Avoiding a five-minute phone call for days or weeks.
The same qualities can also bring:
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Throwing yourself wholeheartedly into new ideas and experiences.
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Having the courage to try things that others overthink.
Emotions & Internal Experience
Emotionally, it can feel like:
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Thinking about criticism and what people say in the middle of the night.
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Feeling overwhelmed by things that seem manageable on other days.
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Becoming frustrated with yourself when you know what you're capable of.
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A repetitive idea that you are lazy, careless or not trying hard enough.
It may also mean:
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Feeling joy, excitement and enthusiasm intensely.
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Having strong empathy for people who are struggling.
Time & Organisation
You might often find yourself:
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Putting food on to cook and remembering it much later.
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Being the last one to get ready and out the door.
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Buying loads but struggling to find planners, systems and apps that work.
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Arriving at gym/work without what you need.
You might also be the person who:
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Pulls everything together at the last minute when it really matters.
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Knows exactly what to do crisis when others become overwhelmed.
Relationships
You might recognise:
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A pile up of WhatsApp messages to reply to and people to contact.
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Interrupting because you're afraid you'll lose the thought if you wait.
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Forgetting birthdays, dates or plans despite genuinely caring.
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Frequent falling out because of misunderstandings.
Beneath the misunderstandings, there is often:
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Deep loyalty to the people you care about.
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Bringing humour, spontaneity, great story telling and energy into relationships.
Self-Perception & Self-Awareness
Over the years, you may have found yourself:
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Wondering why things that seem easy for other people feel so difficult.
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Feeling lazy, disorganised or unreliable despite constantly trying harder.
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Looking back and seeing a trail of unfinished projects and abandoned hobbies.
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Feeling like you're capable of more than you're currently managing.
Looking back, you may also notice:
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Being highly self-aware and endlessly curious about how your mind works.
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Developing high levels of creativity, problem-solving and adaptability.
Thinking & Focus
Inside your head, it might look like:
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Opening your phone to do one thing and getting lost in a doom scroll.
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Finding it difficult to sit and watch a film without multitasking.
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Reading the same menu three times and still not knowing what to choose.
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Knowing what life admin needs doing but struggling to decide where to start.
Less obvious, but equally common:
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Making connections between ideas that other people don't see.
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Falling deeply into subjects, projects and ideas that genuinely interest you.
